Children in the train room?

I don’t when I am not there. But I do have open house when I there and some others are

Today a lady at church asked my mother if her son(3 years old) could come over some time and see my trains. My answer to that was that I would be more than happy for him to. That’s my answer all the time, unless I know that I know that I’m going to be dealing with some particularly troublesome people.

I’m 17 years old, and I’ve been in the hobby in some way, shape or form most of those 17 years. Keeping younger people out of my train room, to me, at least, would be almost as bad as telling myself that I can’t play with my trains. And, yes, I do play with my trains…

But,of course!! I wouldn’t have a 15 year old Grandson into model railroading if I didn’t…Sadly it didn’t take on his brother.But,I will settle for 1 out of 2.[:D]

Only twice have I had any problems, once was a niece who wanted to see a switch engine up close, and accidentally dropped it, with minor damage, the other was with my cat, which back when he was with me came into my train room and jumped up on my layout for me to pet him, Having a AHM AC12 cab forward siting on the tract just a few feet from him , I moved it up too where he was and started to bump him with it, after about a minute he had enough and turned around and swatted it clean across the train room, took over six months to get it repaired, no I did not kill the cat, he died years later of old age.and It was all my fault I should have not P*** him off. and no! I no longer have the cab Forward either a friend wanted it bad enouth to make me an offer as they say I could not refuse.

All of the kids in my family are too little yet to handle or appreciate anything fragile, but I do allow them to run the trains because if they happen to goose them up a little too much I’m standing right there to slow them back down.
My brother in law had to get out of the hobby because his son (my nephew) would cry and get him in trouble with my sister because he wouldn’t let him handle or run his trains. I would have given something up alright, but it wouldn’t have been my trains!.. Now you know one of the reasons why I’m happily single (divorced).

Nope. But then again all my Friends are over 10. AND if leave the room so do they.

When supervised they can be good from a very early age, say 5 for some kids, such as my son. Others are hopeless at any age.

And ALL are hopeless if unsupervised. A bunch of kids left unattended will eventually degenerate into some stupid game involving crashes, speeding, physically wrestling with the trains or a combination of all three (guess how I know this).

The main thing is to understand their physical limitations. My son knows not to lift locos because he sometimes drops things, and not to use sharp tools etc

But you can’t have a blanket rule. My nephews are idiots: I don’t trust them with anything and I never will[V]

I do, in fact it was my daughters fault for coming back to the hobby. At 3 and a 1/2 (her age) we set up a temp layout to keep her entertained (N scale) it sat out on the coffee table for month’s and she could run it and handle them anytime she wanted. It is now taken down because she got interested in making tree’s and rocks in prep for the big layout upstairs. Now she’s been learning to paint the backdrop. She really is a sweet heart and gentle to boot. Now when she start’s having friends over I don’t know what I’ll do then???
hmmm?

Chris

I built my benchwork high enough so that small kids can’t reach the trains which in turn, I let them stand on a step stool so that they can see the trains in one spot and then they can’t roam around the room touching stuff…a lot of kids like to see the layout by handling everything…not good on trees and many small plastic parts…I will let them run the trains, but i’m in the room with them when i do let them…i don’t have any kids at home, but a lot of the neighborhood kids come over to see the trains…some are good at running the trains, but others i have to watch…it’s a scale prototype layout…not a race track to see how fast the trains will go…Chuck

I am 34 years old, and built my first layout this past winter (well, I should say “building” my first layout - who ever really finishes one???)

The only reason I built one is because my Grandpa and my Dad got together before I was born (when they knew I was coming along) and decided to build me a layout… don’t know why they chose this, but I’m glad they did. They built a 20x20 full layout in Grandpa’s basement… The train was for ME and my sister when she came along… We were taught how to handle the trains, how to pop up in the scuttle holes to re-rail trains, etc. etc…

I built a layout for my kids, who are 8 and 4 years old, and have taught them the same things that I was taught, and they are no problem around the trains.

They know that if their friends want to see the trains, they need to get me to teach their friends about the trains.

If we don’t let the kids come and run the trains, handle them, and even help build the layouts, where will model railroading be in another 20 years?

Here Here to all who lets kids near the trains.

If you don’t pass on the train, when you pass on then what ???

We have the old wooden smash em and bash em Thomas. And we have breakable Thomas. Other kids come over and my son tells them about breakable Thomas he runs it slow. When we are alone, we sometimes run the trains faster, but with friends around we run them slow and show them how. Works out great. The whole reason for getting back into trains is the kids, so we always include them.

Tim

I keep my old MRC Prodigy with 4 throttles as a back-up to my Zephyr. That way when my grand-children come over I simply throw a switch and four of them can each run a train.
Girls at 4 and boys from about 6 are quite safe - when they know that this is for real and that you expect them to be well behaved. After four years with this set-up I have yet to come close to a “near miss” and every one has a good time. They are after all the next generation in the hobby.

my daughters, ages 7 and almost 11, help with the layout itself and I have shown them how to handle things with extreme care. they are well aware that the trains and accessories are very delicate.

My origional layout, or should I say my son’s layout was table height 28-30" on the typical 4x8 ply. This is what rekindled my interest in trains. All my children had some interest and ran the trains. Of coarse the special delicate pieces were out of reach when they were very young. After joining a club, with a very large layout, my kids would sit at the cabs and I would let them run(only my stuff, and they knew not to touch any other members equipment). My daughter, at 7, could run a cab and control a train on her own. Other members where amazed, that she knew the blocks/ reversing better than some casual users. The proper training and exposure to the hobby made for many fun times. Now that they are teens and young 20’s their interests are elswere, but occasionaly they will come to the club and all love to help out at the club show and open house. They were taught right, they always know what I want for Christmas or birthday.
Even at our shows/ open house there’s always a young one w/ the grabbies, usually accompanied by a clueless adult. But that’s what lexan is for. Now if we could stop the parents from touching we’d be all set.
Bob K.

My kids are all gone, but I let my 9 year-old nephew run my trains. I supervise closely when he handles them, and he knows not to move them when I am not nearby.

Sometimes, you have to reinforce good behaviour, such as when a young boy asks to run the trains rather than just going ahead and doing it. When Alex asked the first time, my answer had to be ‘Yes!’. He was interested, but he knew to ask. He’s ready.

Other part of the my response is…I am a 52 year-old kid, and I get to handle my trains…so there!

I’ve got a few Athearn Loco’s I let kids that come over play with. Any of my more expensive stuff they can run as long as I’m there. They know what the rules are and they follow them. Only one Loco has ever been broken and that was from one of the dads if you can believe it.

The issue hasn’t come up yet, since we’re at T-minus and counting on our first. But it will, and when it does, I plan to let them in - after a couple of simple precautions, like putting plexiglas around the edge of the layout. How could I not? For all the time and money I’ve lavished on mine, I can’t really argue with my wife’s description of my layout: “it’s a toy.” It is, after all: I’m playing with it. And I LIKE playing with it. And if my children like playing with it, that will mean my hobby can become a family activity, and that would be fine with me. I spent a lot of weekends waiting for Southern Railway freights with my old man, and we both enjoyed it. And a LOT of older model railroaders let me come into the room, ask questions, and sometimes even run the trains.

Jack has had his own Athearn diesel since he was 3. It was cheap second hand. I practiced my first weathering on it. I stole the handrails off it for another loco with missing parts. He objected to that until I told him it was just one less thing he can break, and New Zealand locos don’t have handrails anyway. You just gotta have a reason with kids. Now at 5 I trust him to run anything. He knows not to handle the good steam locos but anything else goes. If he is in doubt he asks me.

I belong to a train club and we have a lot of families with children visit. We don’t let the kids run or touch the HO layout (those Broadway Limiteds are too expensive) or the Three Rail layout (likewise for the postwar Lionels) so we made a simple layout with a loop of three rail track on a 30"x8’ table that’s 30" high with a Marx train, a couple of plastic buildings,a home made water tower, a few oversize figures, vehicles and bottle bru***rees and we call it our U-Run-It layout so now kids of all ages can have a turn at the throttle. It was inexpensive to make as we either had the materials around the club or members had things to donate and now everyone who visits can get a chance to run a train. Ole

The Marklin metal stuff is pretty robust, though Jack’s friends managed to kill a loco by holding it down while running it [:(!]