As someone who’s been on eBay and even made a living for awhile, for what it’s worth, here’s something from the seller’s point of view.
You may not know this but eBay charges huge fees just to list an item on their servers. They get a cut no matter if it sells or not. They get a cut when an item does sell. If someone has an eBay store, they get a larger cut there as well. Then to top it off, if the item is purchased through PayPal, you guessedit, eBay gets another 3%+.
When selling a $10 item, the profit is somewhere around $5USD, and that’s assuming the seller got the item for free. On a more expensive item, there is a bit larger “wiggle room” for profit. I quit selling full time because I just wasn’t making money on my sales.
You add all of this up and it’s no wonder that sellers add on extra charges. It always gets passed on to the buyers in the end.
From my point of view, I always spell things out. Condition, shipping, etc. I don’t want an upset customer because they didn’t read the description.
Above all, know what you’re buying. Know how much the item has sold for in the past. (do an advanced search for "completed items.) Set you limit and don’t go over. It is always easy to say, “Just a little more.” Always leave feedback, even if the other guy doesn’t. Last but not least, always pay for an item! Dot renig on your bid. If you find out something won’t work after you won it, do the right thing, buy it, then turn around and resell it. Don’t be a jerk.
Hope that gives you a different perspective. One that most buyers never see. Good luck either way.
Chris
(*The above figures are not exact, just off the top of my head, so don’t quote this as gospel)