I primed the pump for my son on his first Christmas. He’d seen the christmas tree and the lights, and some of the wrapped presents, but when his mom held him upright and that bell and whistle started going, and the lighted steam engine came racing out from a giftwrapped “tunnel” valve gear flashing and a string of cars following behins, it blew his mind, flat melted all his circuits.
I’d never heard him scream like that before, and have never heard it since. I couldn’t tell if he was scared, or thrilled or what, probably all the above, and it just overloaded his senses. Now he’s 11, my daughter is 6 and we’re all doing the HO thing, the first real layout.
I started by taking him to a yard, and seeing what he liked and didn’t like, it didn’t cost a dime. We’ve progressed to laying track and fixing couplers, and frankly, I don’t think he’d care if we were working on trains or playing with Barbie dolls. My daughter wouldn’t care if we were playing with trains or fixing the car. the point is that we are doing it together. I choose things for them to do where it doesn’t matter if they screw it up. I let them do some, try it first anyway, then show them easier ways and give them tips. I make a big deal out of their successes.
From there, we come to the real answer to your question, what set to get. What’s going to keep their interest for the longest period of time? Lionel might be something that they can stay busy with for hours, but if you aren’t into the tinplate thing and want realistic modelling, then you are putting distance and frustration between you and your children, not bringing them closer.
I’ve been an HO guy the whole time, there more of it out there than other gauges, which to me, means more room to grow and evolve, more time before the whole things is “done” and no more work or fun is possible. If the kid just wants to spend time with daddy, then a big part of the decision falls to you., and HO makes a lot of sense to me, soooo…
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