Driving to New York this weekend, catching all the rail action to the side of the highway here and there…getting excited about seeing a line of Union Pacific and CP auto racks here, some hulking CSX diesels in a lashup rolling through an industrial yard there, a company-owned industrial switcher with beautifully rusted tank cars at a chem plant, a huge intermodal facility with freight from around the world endlessly stretching down the tracks…
She is like, “what is wrong with you, they’re just trains.” At least she said it with a smile.
Well, i didn’t even notice this scenery about a year ago, much less get excited about it. Is it an illness or just an obsession that I’ve caught in the last year? [:-,]
Neither, it is noticing and enjoying things where there is no down side. It just makes everything more enjoyable. You can see trees, instead of forests, and you can enjoy trains instead of traffic. Besides there are lots of pretty girls in this world.
Yes, this is the great eureka, the blissful awareness of what causes you joy and understanding. Let those who dream of winning the lottery have their pleasure, and you and I can enjoy something much more realistic…just usually unnoticed.
On your next trip, pay attention to any cute girl riding in a car next to you. When your girlfriend complains, say: “well, you ridiculed me when I looked at the trains!” After that she will probably point out trains on the the side of the road you are not watching. Reference: scene from “Desperate Housewives”.
So next time you’ve spent half a day (that felt like a month) in the mall you say to her “What is wrong with you? They’re just shoes.” If she doesn’t smile… it’s girlfriend change time[:-,]