Ok my story just shows how stupid people can be and screw up their lifes forever. About two yrs ago at this time, I started going out w/a single parent who truthfuly treated me nice, was good to me and made me feel good. I think I was a breath of fresh air to her. I treated her like a queen, for her birthday in Feb '06 we went on a wk long Amtrak trip and just had a blast. I developed feelings for her, I think she had feelings for me but didnt know what to do w/them. Everyone at work was telling her to just grab me and let me take take care of her & girls. Things began to slack off in 07 but we still were friends and kept in touch. Now this is where the bad sits in. She has had this on/off thing w/another man. Private if you know what I mean. Again the guys were telling her to stay away from it and this dude is married. Well anyway she is now four months pregent by him, carrying twins, he basically told her to get lost, she now is flirting w/someone else. Her life is screwed for good. She called the wife, told her all. Her goal was to hire on as a condr but didn’t come about and never will. Even though we really haven’t dated for almost a yr, it still hutrs to see this, she did it, i don’t feel sorry for her. I just need to work her out of my system totally. All I wanted was to be good to her and see her get a rr job but i guess i can hold my head up knowing i atleast tried. Just takes time and its not fun.
Jeese, regarding this OT stuff, some of the threads that have been locked lately are very tame. Where’s Dr Phil when you need him? LOL
Chico
He would have to be in a slow-turning pool to even have any opportunity.
Wow, with all the turmoil over recent threads on this forum that had no less to do with railroading than this one (which I think is about as ridiculous a thread as I have ever seen), I would think our moderator will have a field day and quickly lock this one for good.
Surprised me this one lasted as long as it did in the archives, Jim.
With the new system I’m having difficulty getting a feel for what is kosher here … oops! Was I just politically incorrect there? Sorry if I offended anyone.[:D]
I just don’t like feeling like a guinea pig. Ooops! Did my old PI gene me do it again? Sorry if I offended anyone.[:D]
I’ll just have me a big scoop of vanilla. Any other flavor seems too complicated right now.[sigh]
I’m sure Veronica is nowhere to be found, at least in these parts. Hope she’s still happily married.
I’m one of the very lucky ones.
Hi Veronica Welcome to the forum Great reply from Ed
I’m happily married for 51 years. Worked in RR offices and never on the line. Seen many men making fools of themselves, running around. An interesting episode was when one of the men announced his wife found he was a two-timer. She was divorcing him and taking him for all the money he had. He gave in his resignation and said, she would not get a cent from him and he was going to live on the streets with a tin cup begging. When he made the announcement everyone cheered and said good riddance to him.
Yeah guys this ones due for a big’ol padlock.
Ken.