Mark,I will say this…A “crash” coupling is frowned on and can get the crew in hot water that will result in standing before the man in order to give account.
As far as modelers…This won’t be popular but,I have also watch switching videos and watched in person and with the number of operating and safety rules they break they would be fired. I won’t get into the Union work rule violations.
Why is it thus? For the majority their knowledge about operations come from a book on operation written by author that never work on the road.These books don’t cover the operation and safety rules like a railroader must learn and follow.
The sadder part some of these “operators” are the first to cry “Its my railroad and I don’t need any rules”.Little do they know to the knowledgeable they are not prototypically operating their layout.
You mention momentum.Maybe this will help?
I use braking and momentum and one needs to learn the correct momentum setting and amount of braking needed for making a smooth stop at a switch,making a smooth complete stop before or at a coupling.
Successful switching operation with momentum and braking requires slow speed switching as well…