b60bp,
I think the only real difference between you and I is attitude and perception. My customers love me. I look out for them and my billing is completely transparent, and I’m good at what I do.
I don’t pay retail for model trains any more than you do, But I also don’t walk into retail stores thinking that posted prices are negotiable. It has something to do with how I was raised. I may politely ask if any discounts are available, but generally in a retail environment I will pay what is advertised or I won’t.
And when I tell customers what my hourly rates and terms are, it is already my best/lowest price, again part of how I was raised. So if you think I am starting out high to take advantage of you, I would rather not work for you.
I realize not everyone thinks this way, but I have done just fine in life without playing the game of starting out higher and negotiating down to the real price, except for cars and houses…
In twenty years of restoring houses I have never had to look for work or spend a penny on advertising, I have all the work I can handle, because I’m honest, fair and good at what I do.
I’m glad you found a dealer who can help you out. Every business has different overhead, etc. What some can do would be a death spell to others. Fixed costs in the Twin Cities may be dramatically different than here in the Mid Atlantic…
I have most of what I need and want, but I have seldom bought what I would call “used” or “already been played with”. I do buy New Old Stock, from whoever might have it for sale.
I’m starting a new layout, due to our big “retirement move”, so a new layout means some new purchases. Again, even with the decline of retail shops, we have plenty of good sources in this region. And many are both brick and mortar as well as online/mailorder.
And we have some great swap meet/train shows in this region as well.
The Mid Atlantic h