I think with humility, in US you have a missunderstood about a double slip; they are sparse and less used in US than in Europe were I lived; they are numerous of them in any size.
In fact a double slip has only two aspect it’s a crossing or the continuity of a curved track which go to the left or to the right depending from where you are coming.
You can’t use in the same time the crossing and the curved form, it’s impossible without deraillement.
In consequence it really don’t need a four position control to use it.
I have a few on my layout and I use only a two position switch; one putting the double slip in the crossing form, the second putting it in the curved form.
You don’t need to have more position, since only one train at a time can travel trough the double switch going to a crossing route or continuing through it like in a curve
My two motors, in my case Hankscraft display motors are wired together so when I move the toggle, only one of the two forms at a time is actived.
Simple and easy to use; I use old modified Arnold Rapido double slip switch control to have the symbol which are lighted now with a led; these old push buttons show a cross and two curved line; just what the double slip is.
This is far enough to know the position of the slip and where the train is going.
I use DCC control, to avoid any mistake, the double slip is wired following DCC diagram; signaling is easy with some relay and by using the position of the double slip; the cross close signal for the curved route, the curved route close the signal to the crossing, since only one way is used at a time , meaning a train coming from left to right or coming to right to left the signal are opposed and lighted green or red following the side this train is coming
These are the old Arnold Rapido push buttons I use just as a reference with the illuminated symbol on my panel.