That is something I’ve noticed too, from both sides. Not only as a buyer, but as a seller too.
As a seller, you do have a commitment to eBay to ship within a specidfied time period, that you make when you sign up. Being too busy either means that business is soooo good, you’re overwhelmed, or your life is in total disarray. In either case, you need help or you have to back off your eBay amount.
As far as I am concerned, shipping once a week is bovine excrement. Nowadays the mail runs 6 days a week,(for now) priority boxes are free, and you can print postage at home or at a business. The same Paypal account that you collect money with will also pay your postage. If you are only home one day of the week, schedule your auctions to close maybe 2 days ahead of that, to give buyers a chance to pay.
However, as a seller who ships on the next business day after payment, I’ve seen a recent trend with buyers. All my listing state that payment is due withing 4 days, after that eBay automaticly starts a non payment case. about half of my last 4 months transactions have had cases started on them because of late payment or non-payment. We’re not talking about alot of money here, most of these items are in the 15-50 dollar range![:O]
I think some of these are auction where there is some buyers remorse, maybe some over-zealous bidding. Maybe they found the same item cheaper, some may have thought they would be out bid and forget about it, and some may have just forgotten about it.
In either case, all you have is a feedback score. Before you commit your money, check the score. For my money, if its not in the 90’s, I keep moving. If the listing say they ship once a week, then sobeit. But if it doesn’t, and you feel you have been strung along , then by all means, let your feedback reflect it. I’m not saying slam them to the mat, but be fairt and objective and be sure you are on solid ground, in case the other party objects to eBay.