I’m not sure where someone who’s “in the business” has an opinion on this topic that counts any more than any other enthusiast (or human for that matter). I’ll reply… but understand that this is coming from Erik the railfan and should not in any way, shape, or form be considered the official opinion of Trains.com or Trains Magazine.
I’m neutral. I can understand the point of view that cemetaries shouldn’t be disturbed. However, I don’t think walking through a cemetary, or taking a photo from it is disrespectful. (If a service is going on, you should obviously be respectful.)
Have I personally ever photographed from a cemetary? Possibly. I was in Kansas a few years ago on a railfanning trip with a couple of chums from the office. We parked in the cemetary outside of El Dorado. That cemetary is on a dead end road and sees very little traffic. I remember being trapped by a BNSF train for close to an hour. I can’t remember if I actually took any shots from the cemetary (prior to the train parking there). I do remember walking around and looking at the tombstones.
I’d say your personal judgement should drive your decision. I doubt it’s against the law. If it makes you uncomforatable or if you feel you shouldn’t be doing it, don’t. If you’re comfortable with what you’re doing and do it with all due respect, then so be it. This is more of a moral issue than anything else. I’m sure two people with differing opinions can argue this for days.
Erik